Communicating About Grief With Your Family and Friends

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 After someone dies it can be hard for everyone to adjust. Family members might argue with each other more often, and sometimes being with your family can be uncomfortable for you. However, it can also be a time when you can grieve together. Don’t be afraid to talk about the person who has died. You might not want to mention that person for fear of upsetting others, but don’t forget that your family members and friends are probably already upset, even though they might not be showing it. The silence created by not talking about the person who has died might make your family members feel like that person was not significant, or that this person didn’t exist at all. 
Friends of the person who has died might have deep feelings of grief as well. Like you, they may also want to have something of their friend. Try and be sensitive to their requests. Including these people into your grieving might help you get through your own loss. Friends may also be a great source of support, and good people to talk to about some of the major decisions you need to make.

Acknowledgement: This fact sheet was originally developed by youth and staff at, a website that helps teens get through tough times. 

Dear Auntie, I have a dream catcher that happened to be in a box I got at an auction. Its original owner had passed away so I dont know who made it and I'm uncomfortable owning it since I am white. Is it okay for me to have it? And if not, what do I do with it?

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